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Have you ever wanted to quit when things get hard?

Hopefully you have't labeled yourself as such - a person who quits when things get hard. Even if there has been an occasion when that has been true.

Do you??

Do you see times when you did quit when something got hard? Conversely, do you see times when you persevered, stuck with it and kept going?

There have been times when I didn't stay in the fight. And plenty of times I did. 

This morning I literally listed out cases for both...

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Being a Martyr for Work is a Choice

So much talk about work-life balance/harmony/integration/management/blend.

Your business (career) doesn't have to come at the expense of your family, or self, or health, or other relationships and interests.

Being a martyr for work is a choice. You can CHOOSE any aspect of your life at any given time.

As a mall marketing director (10 years of my life!), I worked holidays and at least half my weekends. Four days off a month never seemed like enough! Because it wasn't.

When I was promoted to...

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I Don't Know About This

Sometimes we hear a whisper. "I don't know about this" is playing in the back of your mind. Something just doesn't feel quite right. You know something is off but you can't quite put your finger on it. 

You're uneasy about something. The thought of it makes you uncomfortable - maybe mildly so or greatly so. It's just this feeling you have in your gut.

If you're being pushed in a direction and it feels uncomfortable, dig beneath the surface of that and examine where the discomfort is...

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"Stay Liquid"

It's what Sergeant Daniel "Hondo" Harrelson (played by Shemar Moore) of CBS' S.W.A.T. says when his team of highly trained officers is about to enter into a dangerous situation. 

After hearing the iconic phrase several times I started to ponder what it meant.

My 2 cents? It means be flexible. Be ready, willing and able to adjust on the fly based on what the situation calls for. Don't get so convinced that an "op" will go a certain way that it causes mistakes. Adapt to your environment...

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Make Work-Life Balance Choices That Kick Guilt to the Curb

Saying "yes" to one thing means saying "no" or "not right now" to something else. And whatever choice we make often leads to a feeling of guilt about the thing we said "no" to.

With so many people and things vying for our attention, no wonder we seek work-life balance. As an achiever, the options for how to fill your time are plentiful. Time is like a bank account that feels like it's always in the red.

What do we achievers feel guilty about?

Everything. Anything. Pick your...

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Break Up With Your Vice in 2 Easy Steps

VICES! Most of us normal people have one...or a few.

Some infamous ones include:

  • Drinking too much soda/soft drinks
  • Shopping as therapy
  • Chocolate
  • Smoking
  • Alcohol
  • Eating when bored (or stressed, sad, lonely, celebrating, etc.)
  • Facebook in excess
  • You Tube in excess

We love our vices, most of the time. Except when we take them too far and they cause us pain.

Ready to rid yourself of such a villain?

First, decide if you want to reduce or delete the behavior.

This is an important...

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1 Easy Method for Consistently Scoring Your Wheel of Life Categories

Do your monthly Wheel of Life scores look more like a record of your mood swings on the the 30th of the month than an actual record of how well you're doing in each category?

When you don't have a framework or criteria from which to measure your results, your self-scoring can end up being all over the place, based on how you were feeling when you did your monthly dashboard review. 

For example, if you just landed a big new client - your scores may have been high in the 'mission"...

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Guess who got the last laugh in this Terminator story

We are what we think we are.

You can't be it, if you can't see it. Your life is limited to your vision. If you want to change your life, you must change your vision of your life.

In the 70's, Arnold Schwarzenegger had reached the peak of his bodybuilding career and then decided to retire. Back then he was not as famous as now. In 1976 a journalist asked him:

Now that you have retired from the bodybuilding scene, what do you plan to do next?

Schwarzenegger smiled and calmly replied "I'm going...

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This Tool Makes Goal Setting Tidier than Marie Kondo's Sock Drawer

Starting to notice that life isn't all you wanted or expected?

Most of us spend more time planning vacations than our lives.

Maybe you set some random goals but you're just going through the motions and none of it seems to tie together.

Maybe you love to plan but sometimes get lost in the details, get off track, get overwhelmed, or don't know how to break it all down.

You don't have to spend 40 bucks to be in the "overachievers" club just to get some clunky binder to write your goals in.


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Moment With Mom: She Anticipated My Needs

Mom was always bringing me things I liked…even though I didn’t ask for them.

Usually it was something I didn’t know I wanted until after she gave it to me; stuff I wouldn’t have purchased on my own at the time. For example, a matching set of cereal bowls and coffee cups, a trivet for the kitchen counter, a wreath for the front door. She was thoughtful that way.

It’s as if she could see around corners.
She could see into the future and...
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